Want to be seen, then avoid showing up. Want a relationship, then look for all the reasons to get away from it. These contradictions occupy an important place in Experience X. Before talking about lack of will, I propose to look at what each of these movements tries to preserve.
A sincere intention can coexist with a fear of failure, judgment or change. Rather than forcing the passage immediately, these two movements can be made visible. This allows us to choose an action simple enough not to add a new inner struggle.